I don't understand the concept of beauty these days..

[coma]

okay, I am still a bit introspective, as this rather unmanly thread speaks...but as my journey of googled images show, I just gave up and rested on a romantic sunset. There is nothing more manly than not giving a sh!t what anyone thinks. And sharpening your romantic skills? Whats soft about that? You're way ahead of some of your peers. Given a choice, listen to the ladies. Often, only guys who dont know anything about ladies goof on those looking for some kind of answer. Think the Gas and Sip in Say Anything. I spent a long time trying to be a hard ass. It's not worth it. Inside Im a sensitive spaz internally. I dont look it, but I am. And I say f**k it. When you pass desperation (which guys stink of like homeless B.O.) and move on to ambivalence, you will score big time. Its a scientific fact Ah yeah totally, I don't talk like such a randy bloke amongst the ladies ... unless they specifically ask. Its a good way to sort out the uptight ones. If they think the randy stuff is funny, you good to go. Plus they aren't repressed which equals MZ living out his unsaid pervo fantasies

[Terran]

Haw! You cad! Romance and getting laid are overrated. Been there done that. Lets try several years of fear and loathing....lol Probally part of it is that I think....*hmm ahhh crap they are totally into me....they just dont know me well enough to hate me yet*... Nothing warms a girls heart more than a meticulous scientific verbal deconstruction of emotion, love, and romance.....

[coma]

Romance and getting laid are overrated. Been there done that. Lets try several years of fear and loathing....lol Probally part of it is that I think....*hmm ahhh crap they are totally into me....they just dont know me well enough to hate me yet*... Nothing warms a girls heart more than a meticulous scientific verbal deconstruction of emotion, love, and romance..... What a stud. Seriously dude. Even if thats a little true, I feel kinda bad for you. Romance and getting laid are not overrated. Not if it's good.

[MikePizzoff]

Why can't there be a drooling emoticon? That girl is breath taking.

[capncnut]

That girl has also been airbrushed and blown up to s**t.

[Chic Freak]

No padding on the pelvic bone. You can get a painful bruising feeling on the mid groin Bloody hell. David Beckham's "mid groin" must be one big perma-bruise A lot of things I picked up from Girls who liked me and were planting their own seeds. Just Observe and ye shall overcome. I think that's good advice too. Next time you see someone and get that proper flash of "ooh they're hot", try and think what it was that made you think that (other than pure looks) e.g. what they said, eye contact, body language, attitude, all that, and maybe you couold adapt it for your own ends. And that "want to see my etchings" bit works like a charm. If a girl tells me she wants me to paint her portrait Im in like flynn. If she wants a painting lesson I aint teaching her painting Pssh, coma's a proper fount of wisdom. You guys should be taking notes here When you pass desperation (which guys stink of like homeless B.O.) and move on to ambivalence, you will score big time. Its a scientific fact Also true. Sadly enough, there is often nothing hotter than a guy who couldn't care less whether you fancy him or not *sigh* Probally part of it is that I think....*hmm ahhh crap they are totally into me....they just dont know me well enough to hate me yet*... I used to think like that. You've just got to keep reminding yourself that they're not stupid, and if they like/ love you, then there must be something likeable/ loveable about you that they can see, even if you can't see it yet. Good luck xx That girl has also been airbrushed and blown up to s**t. Which brings me onto another "what do men really think?" question. Fake boobs: yay or nay? Is it better for a girl to be flat-chested or have implants? Obviously it's better if she has naturally nice boobs, before anyone says it, but assuming she doesn't..?

[_liam_]

boobs are like ghost photographs, sometimes fake ones look better than real ones, sometimes the other way round, there's an element of luck in it

[Chic Freak]

True. I've seen some horrors, just like everyone else has I expect! But then there's Dita Von Teese.

[MikePizzoff]

I think fake boobs suck. They don't feel right... (from what little bit I've experienced) they're way too firm.

[Chic Freak]

mm, I've heard someone say they feel like grapefruit

[MinionZombie]

If a fake boob is done well, then it can't really do much harm ... but you don't want some Lolo Ferrari staggering about - it's all about proportion. And of course, some fake boobs, or most actually, look pretty good in a bra behind a t-shirt, but that comes off and they haven't moved an inch - that's not so good. Natural is always best, it's all about proportion like I said, any size really.

[LouCipherr]

Romance and getting laid are overrated. Been there done that. Lets try several years of fear and loathing....lol Been there, done that, overrated. Now I just wanna get laid. (sorry man, couldn't resist.. )

[_liam_]

excessive drug use and nihilism are overrated, romance is a nice change after youve been frying and refrying your brain for a few years...

[Eyebiter]

This pressure to be ultra thin has encouraged a new generation of women who are either fitness nuts or are very skinny though diet but don't seem healthy. If you look at the Sports Illustrated swimsuit models from the 1970's and 1980's like Farrah Fawcett, Christie Brinkley, Cherl Tiegs, Claudia Schiffer, or Cindy Crawford - most would never make the cut now days.

[Debbieangel]

More sense from the guru! Totally, back at uni there was this girl I was friends with and I spent like the latter two years of the three that we were in class together (we were both doing the same degree) swinging back and forth. One minute I was totally up for it and gonna ask her out, then the next day I'd be all cooled off on her, then I'd be all heated up again, then cooled off and this shiite went on with me for two years like I was saying, and it bugged the shiite out of me. Anyway, time just kept slipping by, as it usually does when you're at uni and you think that time goes on forever, and then before I knew it uni was over. Then I saw her at graduation, and she was all spruced up and looked so damn hot and we took a picture together and I was just like "dude, you're such a f*cking indecisive numpty"...*sigh*... After having been burned before going to uni, that made me all indecisive and cautious and I could never make my mind up, and now I just regret it cos I was such an idiot. We still keep in touch, but I found it really hard to read her, as I duno, kinda got the impression she might have been similarly indecisive back at me, so if that was the case, we were both mutually indecisive and anyway, I lost out, and that's something I'd definitely change if I could go back in time and give my previous self some advice - I'd say get off your indecisive ass already! awwwwwwww that is a sad story MZ you have my sympathy..anyway her loss!!....I almost did the same thing... I played too cool with my boyfriend and he got engaged to another girl, we stayed best friends while he was engaged my heart was breaking inside !!! Then he found out she was cheating on him. But, anyway you are sweet and will find the right girl! BTW: I have been married to my best friend for 31 yrs!