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Marie
19-Jun-2006, 12:43 PM
In a Pet Cemetary.... Well, actually I plan to be cremated.... but..

Pet Cemetery to Dig Up 1,000 Animals
By MARCUS WOHLSEN, AP

COLMA, Calif. (June 17) - Nila Negri grieved her two dogs and a cat years ago, when they were buried at the lone pet cemetery among 17 human graveyards in this town known as the "City of Souls."

Now she is back at the Pet's Rest cemetery, sitting on a gravestone, head in hands.

Some 1,000 animals buried here have to be dug up and moved because they were buried on leased property, and the landowner, a local real estate firm, wants to use it for human graves.

For Negri and the other owners, the prospect of seeing the animals exhumed stirred up grief they thought had been put to rest.

"I don't want anybody touching my pets," said Negri, who has lived in San Francisco since 1949.

Nearby, piles of freshly turned earth and cracked stone slabs marked places where animals had recently been removed, and a miniature coffin scarred with rust sat in the grass.

Pet's Rest owner Phillip C'de Baca sent letters in May to the pet owners buried at the graveyard's eastern end, giving them 15 days to choose between two free options: relocation or cremation.

Frantic pet owners recently staged a rally at the cemetery, and they are exploring legal options to stop the exhumations, said Cathryn Hrudicka, whose buried her dog Poquito at Pet's Rest.

"At no time was I told he was being buried on leased land," said Hrudicka, 53.

C'de Baca said he thought he'd be given the chance to buy the land once the lease was up. But the owner, the Cypress Abbey real estate firm, plans to use it as a human cemetery, said its attorney David J. Friedenberg.

"They've been waiting to get their property back," he said.

According to the lease agreement, Pet's Rest was required to notify everyone with animals buried on the leased land that "all rights of interment" would expire on May 19. Many with animals buried there said they were never notified.

California has no state regulations governing pet cemeteries, said Kevin Flanagan, a spokesman for the state's cemetery and funeral bureau.

Grief counselors who deal with pet loss say mourning a pet is as natural as mourning a person.

"It's like losing another child," said Dr. Carol A. Brothers, a clinical psychologist who specializes in grief and trauma. But, she said, "it's a disenfranchised grief."

Negri's cocker spaniel Rusty, her poodle Gigi, and her cat Morden are among the 13,000 animals buried at Pet's Rest. Her husband and parents are also buried in the city, which became a magnet for cemeteries after a San Francisco law passed in 1900 prohibited the burial of human remains within city limits.

Negri said she didn't get a letter from C'de Baca but came anyway to make sure her pets weren't affected.

She came out of the cemetery office smiling. Her pets could continue to rest in peace, she said.

06/17/06 13:56 EDT

Kinda like the situation the "Mummies of Mexico" were in huh?

M_

MinionZombie
19-Jun-2006, 06:39 PM
Yuck, I certainly don't envy the jobs of the folk who have to go and dig up all those keeled over Rovers and Mittens etc.

As for burial, aye, I wanna be cremated too. Originally I wanted to be buried, but that was a childish view of the whole death thing. Being confronted with death for the first time properly changed my mind and I indeed want to be cremated when I've passed on...

Eyebiter
19-Jun-2006, 07:24 PM
This is how I'd like to go:

1. Cremate your body
2. Funeral director takes the ashes and loads them into 12 gauge shotgun shells
3. Bring the loaded rounds to your favorite duck hunting spot and let your friends and family fire the rounds loaded with ashes at ducks flying over

Marie
19-Jun-2006, 07:42 PM
As for burial, aye, I wanna be cremated too. .

My standing joke used to be that I was going to be cremated and had a list of prople that ****ed me off in life that I'd left for my designated person to throw my ashes in the face of....:D

M_

Mike70
20-Jun-2006, 12:48 AM
i choose cremation as well. though it is unfortunate that it can no longer be done publicly with the ceremony that it deserves (at least in this country). then my ashes are going to be scattered in the ohio river. no grave marker, no mausoleum - i want to be gone.

loved ones should live on in memory not in stone.

kortick
20-Jun-2006, 01:36 AM
I dont plan on leaving enough of my remains
to make that type of decision

a violent and explosive ending
is what i am aiming for

MapMan
20-Jun-2006, 01:41 AM
I want to be donated to science. Some hot medical student carving on me. Preferably Red hair........blue eyes....light skin...I need to go for a few minutes.

Cody
20-Jun-2006, 04:14 AM
what if she turns out to be ugly?

Terran
20-Jun-2006, 09:21 AM
This is how I'd like to go:

1. Cremate your body
2. Funeral director takes the ashes and loads them into 12 gauge shotgun shells
3. Bring the loaded rounds to your favorite duck hunting spot and let your friends and family fire the rounds loaded with ashes at ducks flying over

This is how Id like to go....Doc Holiday style ....



On November 8, 1887, the legendary gunfighter Doc Holliday awoke after 57 days of delirium and asked for a glass of whisky. The consumptive Holliday drank it down, spoke his last words, and promptly expired. The last words? "This is funny!"

Man what a hero....move over superman

Danny
20-Jun-2006, 09:30 AM
id want to be buried, y'know so the worms and plants and **** feed on you giving something back so you never really die and all that bollox.

makes sense to me i dont care that mutch i mean it aint happening to ''me'' just a lifeless body, unless im being buried alive, in that case it'd suck:D

Terran
20-Jun-2006, 10:15 AM
id want to be buried, y'know so the worms and plants and **** feed on you giving something back so you never really die and all that bollox.

makes sense to me i dont care that mutch i mean it aint happening to ''me'' just a lifeless body, unless im being buried alive, in that case it'd suck:D


Gah I really do not know how much more I can stand the language censorship I keep coming back thinking it wont bother me...Its starting to border on organized religion....


I mean I dont even know if its worth mentioning the logical standpoint of this forum....The forum is dedicated to movies that are all R rated... and we cant even say ****....(which they can say on Comedy Central every day)

MinionZombie
20-Jun-2006, 11:39 AM
I think I might donate my organs when I peg it, although it depends on when I peg it and whether they'd actually be of any use, who knows eh. But there's a conspiracy theory running around that Doctors don't try as hard to save you if you're a donor, as opposed to if you're somone who's keeping their organs thank you very much. So that's something that turns me off the donor thing. Although, if I was rendered a vegetable in some horrific accident, I'd definately want to be "turned off" and then harvest my organs like they're going out of fashion, but if I just need a kick in the ticker to get me back on the go then try as hard as you would if I didn't have a donor card, ta very muchly, Mr Doctor Sir.