Ever feel bitter?

[MissJacksonCA]

My boyfriend said i'm bitter and that I not only depress him but I make him miserable... so yeah that only made me way more bitter but moving onn... anyone else bitter over something? anything? everything? I think its okay to vent to strangers because apparently it affects people who actually bloody well know you.

[mista_mo]

I'm bitter about my break up with my ex. She sprung it out of no where, and then after that she led me on for 5 months saying we'd get back together and she even told me she loved me. we may have broken up 8 months ago but it still hurts alot because of what she did to me. I'm bitter in the sense that i no longer want to date anyone for a long time and it has changed me and how i act.

[coma]

I'm bitter about my break up with my ex. She sprung it out of no where, and then after that she led me on for 5 months saying we'd get back together and she even told me she loved me. we may have broken up 8 months ago but it still hurts alot because of what she did to me. I'm bitter in the sense that i no longer want to date anyone for a long time and it has changed me and how i act.
dude, she's just selfish. You either are together or your not. Waiting for what? Something better? Love can suck but the change you feel is called growing up. Getting ripped to shreds by a harpie is part of that. Helps you to make better choices later on. TO know what you want and dont want. And dont say she didnt mean it. Ive been there and to honest it wasnt her concern. Herself was all that mattered and your feelings were just peripheral to her indecision. My advice; when you get an opportunity to get laid, take it.:) You'll feel better, I guarantee it. At least for a while and you'll be back on the right track. Getting crapped on by a girl is a rite of passage and your still hete, so you are the better man for it, though you probably dont realize it now,



And am I bitter about stuff. Sure. Plenty. But I am not going to discuss it now:)

[Terran]

Yeah Im practically bitter about everything....

The list would go on forever...

[capncnut]

I'm bitter about my break up with my ex. She sprung it out of no where, and then after that she led me on for 5 months saying we'd get back together and she even told me she loved me...
I don't know what to say man. I went through the same myself so I know how you feel. :(

[Purge]

We all have times in our lives where we wished things had gone differently. Lord knows I do. You're not alone.

[AcesandEights]

I'm pretty ****in' bitter right now.

So cheers!

[mista_mo]

Yea Capn, it really sucks huge balls to have a girl you care for a hell of alot do that to ya eh? and people say that guys don't go emotions. I was actually pissed off at God for a long time as well (and still am) because her reasoning was that she prayed about it and her and God came to teh conclusion that it wasn't to be. So I basically said (actaully I think I did say it)

fck you God, you took away the only thing in my life that mattered. I swore alot that night and cried about teh same. Hell, I rememebr breakign one of the only promises I ever made and that was to not say anything like what i did towards her, which I failed miserably btw.

[Shadowofthedead]

listen im drunk right now and i dont care about much but im pissed that some chick i used to date is movin away to texas and im pissed that i saw my first love leave with some dude.... and im pissed i havent gotten laid in 5 months or more... wheres amara
:mad:

[Tricky]

I got dumped by my first love when i was 20,totally broke my heart and i havent had a proper relationship since!im not bitter though,i wish her well and ive heard she's getting married soon.It does mean that i blow hot and cold with girlfriends now though,which makes me a bit of an arse,i keep hoping il meet someone who will make me feel like she did and ive strung several girls along in my search which i feel a bit of a prick about :(

[capncnut]

It does mean that i blow hot and cold with girlfriends now though, which makes me a bit of an arse...
I totally know what you mean by that Trick.

[Marie]

I was actually pissed off at God for a long time as well (and still am) because her reasoning was that she prayed about it and her and God came to teh conclusion that it wasn't to be. So I basically said (actaully I think I did say it)

fck you God, you took away the only thing in my life that mattered. I swore alot that night and cried about teh same. Hell, I rememebr breakign one of the only promises I ever made and that was to not say anything like what i did towards her, which I failed miserably btw.

Don't blame God because somebody hid behind him and basically couldn't own up to her own decisions. That was totally her.

It always pisses me off when people try and clothe their stupid decisions in respectability by invoking the Deity. Crusaders, Jihadists, racists and witchburners do that .

M_

[Danny]

i allways thought that was the point of religion?:p

[Marie]

i allways thought that was the point of religion?:p

No, the point of religon is forgiveness. We are forgiven, not perfect, therefore the reasonable among us REMEMBER we aren't perfect and don't judge others.

But given the attitudes of some very public religous types I understand your confusion.:p

M_

[coma]

Yea Capn, it really sucks huge balls to have a girl you care for a hell of alot do that to ya eh? and people say that guys don't go emotions. I was actually pissed off at God for a long time as well (and still am) because her reasoning was that she prayed about it and her and God came to teh conclusion that it wasn't to be. So I basically said (actaully I think I did say it)

fck you God, you took away the only thing in my life that mattered. I swore alot that night and cried about teh same. Hell, I rememebr breakign one of the only promises I ever made and that was to not say anything like what i did towards her, which I failed miserably btw.

Dude, its just an excuse she used. Like "Im dont have to guts to say Im not interested so Ill say its divine intervention". C'mon!
If there was a God, do think he gives young girls dating advice?:D
It is also easier for you to blame an abstract idea rather than the girl who you are trying to make into what you want her to be, rather than who she actually is. Its a common Pitfall of relationships, when you discover that they represented, or you made yourself believe, they were something they are not.
I dont know if you get or even read any of this stuff, cause you never respond.:confused:

[_liam_]

i'm bitter, how long have you got?
i'm bitter i was stitched by the education system
i'm bitter ive been out of work for 3 months
i'm bitter that i can rarely walk down the street at night without some dickhead heckling me
i'm bitter because so many people i know are dead
i'm bitter because nothing ever changes, people are still ignorant and hateful
i'm bitter because people will always keep secrets and prevent things from ever getting better
i'm bitter cause my chainsmoking parents ruined my lungs as a kid
i'm bitter because the new episodes of doctor who are a bit too sentimental
i'm bitter because the frosted area on pop tarts is smaller these days
got ta laugh though eh :lol:
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[slickwilly13]

I'm not bitter at all. Everything is going great for me. :cool:

[mista_mo]

coma, to me there is a God and he plays a huge part in our lives, and yes, he tells us eventually who we will end up with, maybe not in words, but he does. You may not believe it but it's true. We all know in time. Again, I am a christian, and is well known that God is always in our lives in everythign we do.

[coma]

coma, to me there is a God and he plays a huge part in our lives, and yes, he tells us eventually who we will end up with, maybe not in words, but he does. You may not believe it but it's true. We all know in time. Again, I am a christian, and is well known that God is always in our lives in everything we do.
I DIDNT say that. I said she is using it as an excuse. Which is Obvious.
If you dont wake up you are going to replay that scenario over and over. That is believing other peoples bullsh!t. And I dont mean your Religion. Its not my thing to comment on that. I keep hearing you talk about this girl and it bothers me, your perception. Its not rational. Im sorry but someones got to tell you or you will get crushed in the exact same way forever.

Not everyone who claims to be faithful is. It is only words. Deeds are what counts. Antone can say they love you. Its showing that counts. Not everyone you want to be a good person actually is. I think its sad that you camt even conceive that this girl is making stuff up, using your faith as a tool, simply because she doent have the balls to be honest. Its easy for me to remember being 18 and in denial of my GF being awful. Carrying a torch for some selfish person who, turns out, really didnt give a crap about me.

Dont just keep repeating the same stuff over and over, Actually think about it in a way that doesnt include beating yourself up or any excuses. Thats the only way to get at the truth of your situation and free yourself of this thing.

If I believed in God and someone told me God told them to treat someone bad. I would believe they werent talking to God. Maybe Satan, maybe No one but themselves.. When I did believe in God as a kid, I didnt believe he was a micromanager who cared if I got a little league homerun.

[capncnut]

The only bitter I know is Courage Directors bitches! :sneaky:

[Debbieangel]

No, the point of religon is forgiveness. We are forgiven, not perfect, therefore the reasonable among us REMEMBER we aren't perfect and don't judge others.

But given the attitudes of some very public religous types I understand your confusion.:p

M_

Well said Marie thank you for saying it!!!!:)