Now that's a weird article, and indeed, it's kinda insulting to guys.
Any decent bloke (and there are many) will stop if the lady says so, but it could take a few seconds if you think about it - you're in the moment, you're busy doing your thing, you might have some music on, you might be grunting away like a hyena - so it's gonna be a few seconds until you snap out of the tunnel vision and be like "ah dude..."
But then what if the bloke isn't a 'strong swimmer' so to speak, and just happens to finish the job in those few seconds after being told to stop - and his finishing is a kind of co-incidence, happening during his 'come down' from the tunnel vision - does that constitute "rape"? 
Really, a decent bloke will stop or slow down or whatever when the lady says so, and likewise a gal should have made up their mind before rather than during - sure, if it hurts or she suddenly finds the guy repulsive (probably due to some scuzzball acting like a nice guy just for some ass) then say to stop, but otherwise any sensible member of the fairer sex should have - in the world of common sense - already made their mind up beforehand.
So that article is kinda pointless, and kinda daft ...
The rape laws in the UK were gonna be tweaked around a bit, but the changes were rejected and the laws remained as they were. A significant chunk of the reasoning for changing the law came down to basically 'we only succeed in convicting 6% of rape cases', so therefore the law needs to be tightening? Hmmm ... I'm not so sure, there are many factors and reasons why that number is so low.
With the UK thing it was going on about blokes having sex with drunk women - but in such a situation the bloke is probably gonna be drunk as well. You can be drunk, but still capable of knowing what you do or do not want to do. And if some hot chick comes up to a bloke and they're both a bit wrecked, the bloke is just really chuffed he's gonna get some ass.
In that situation it comes down to both parties knowing their limits and being aware of the affect of alcohol, and also, some girls should really bone up on their knowledge of how the male brain works. In many cases female attention - I'm talking affectionate style attention - immediately suggests "aye-up, ring-a-ding-ding?", blokes are simple creatures, we're a stones throw away from grunting "fire ... hot" and peeing on the floor.
I've seen it many times before, a girl thinking she's just being friends with a bloke, but meanwhile she's lying between his legs against his chest playing with his hands - to a bloke, that blatantly suggests you're guaranteed some ass, but to a girl it's just being friendly (that situation happened exactly like that when I was in the Sixth Form, and us guys had to explain to the girl what such gestures suggest to blokes).
So really - edu-ma-cay-shun, on a social level, for both ends of the deal...
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