I don't understand the concept of beauty these days..

[LouCipherr]

I actually don't give a damn what size a girl is. If she's pretty, then she's pretty. Advice to live by.

[Debbieangel]

OK I am from the USA and Plus size is a heavy women which is pretty big size size 18 and up. Mista Mo if this gal is sweet and you think she is pretty to you then what is wrong with her? and who gives a flying fig how big she is? What really counts is what kind of person she is inside? I am a very heavy person my husband thinks I am beautiful, I am losing weight I tried on a blouse last night that looked rather nice on me but was lowcut and he said " Ah noo you arent goin out in that showing MY stuff" So, my point in telling you that is big can still be beautiful!! If a women is beautiful inside then she is beautiful on the outside do you know what I mean? I have seen some really skinny so called beautiful women that were trully fugly people, when ya hear them talk it ruins their looks! Why get hung up on size of the gal anyway as long as she is someone you like to be with, to me if you just go for looks that is just shallow? A person can still be beautiful and be heavy I have seen some very pretty women that are very heavy! To tell you the truth my hubby is pretty happy with his fluffy wife! Its all how a person is inside that counts a not the package we come in! Mo, good luck with your relationship with your girlfriend!

[El_Hooligan]

I boned a 90 lbs. girl in high school. I felt like I was boning a skeleton. It seriously hurt. I like a wide array of women, but prefer a little flesh on their bones.

[Danny]

no matter what the weight though, look at how happy, cheerful orsullen/ miserable a guy or gal is and that defiantley effects there looks i think.

[coma]

A figure on a gal is sexy, and time and again I've had girls I'm friends with going on about "do I look fat" and I'm like "hell no", but they never listen, it's like talking to a brick wall, and if the fashion industry is mainly controlled by gay men, how do they know what straight men want in a lady? It certainly isn't Naomi "lob a phone" Campbell or Kate "snort an ounce" Moss. True. It is absoultly about Gay guys ideas of what is sexy in a woman. They have about as much Idea of that as I do of what makes a good looking guy. The dont consider a nice ass AT ALL. Speaking purely physically,They look at a girl as a sculpture rather than as something to maybe enjoy sexually. If you were hanging out with a gay bud and pointed out on the street who you thought was hot and what they thought, You would never, ever agree. I have tried it and its true. Thers some strait dudes who dig anorexic types, but not most. I have never had sex with a skinny rail in my life. Zero attraction. A few really cool girls dug me, but I couldnt get past the ribs etc. Brains, humor and accepting me is whats important. Then Face. Boobs and ass are down the list. In the end its what YOU dig, **** everyone else. I always told my friends, YOU are the one ****ing her, other peoples opinions are worhtless in that area.

[Tricky]

paris hilton is indeed minging,she's way too skinny & has a david coulthard jaw You could call me superficial because initially i do go for girls by looks,but if after 10 minutes of talking to them i find they dont have the personality to go with it then il usually let them go I believe you have to find someone attractive both physically & by personality for it to work.But back to the point,those skinny fashionista girls are horrid kelly brook figure for the win?you better believe it

[Minerva_Zombi]

I prefer smaller girls. Not boney. But no taller than 5'3 and no bigger than 115 lbs. I dunno why, but I have never been atteacted to someone larger than that.I like my girls tiny and trim.

[coma]

I had a good chat with my dad about this when I was about 14. I was saying I thought that supermodels would be the most attractive women on earth and he was saying no, curvy women are. I just assumed he was saying that because he was my dad, and didn't want to encourage me to be skinny, so i didn't believe him. Eventually he threw his hands up in the air and gave me permission to go and buy a porn mag and have a look at the women in there. He said, "if you find a single one that looks like Kate Moss I'll give you a tenner. Anyway, she has horrible skin and teeth." having a good effect on some of the girls I know. Your Pop is a wise man and makes EXACTLY the same argument about that as I do. Porn is a simulated fantasy sex experience. And what do guys fantasize about usually? Figures. Look at perfect 10. Thats a good one. Your Dad Was encouraging you to be happy with yourself by showing you Reality. Good on him. Generally guys say "Kinda in shape, with some meat on the bones" I am not so concerned with working out because then I might feel pressure to and that aint happenin' paris hilton is indeed minging,she's way too skinny & has a david coulthard jaw The problem with Paris is HER. She's wierd looking but OK. No body, but if you like Kooky faces shes alright. But she is stupid, spoiled, venal and useless. And gives the boringest head ever documented. Pretty much yawning her way through it. I dont care wht she looks like, she is so Obnoxious I couldnt even throw her an anger f*ck. She represents the dregs of mankind You could call me superficial because initially i do go for girls by looks,but if after 10 minutes of talking to them i find they dont have the personality to go with it then il usually let them go Not superficial, its pretty much how it works. The exception is when you grow to like someone becasue you have contact with them over a long period, then you think "I never realized how beautiful they are". They still look the same, its just your perception and appreciation thats changed.

[Danny]

ah coma, turly the lurve guru of the hpotd forum

[Tricky]

ah coma, turly the lurve guru of the hpotd forum But the man speaketh the truth

[MinionZombie]

Kelly Brook definitely has a fit bod, but she's a bit of a moron - ever see her when she was co-presenting The Big Breakfast? Oh dear... Anyway, in my experience I've always gone for personality first, I figure if I can't stand the lady then what's the point? It's like in porn and there's a really hot chick and then she speaks and it's just utter garbage and that's a complete shut down to proceedings. Anyway, personality is the key, yeah a nice package is a total bonus and is part of the routine for seeking out a special lady, but personality is a huge part of it for me. There was a girl I was mad for back in high school and it wasn't till I was like over her and had kinda given up with that, that I then thought of her in a sexual light. Up until then it was all about the personality. So while I really like watching porn and watch porn fairly regularly, in real life I'm a 180...that make sense?

[Debbieangel]

Not superficial, its pretty much how it works. The exception is when you grow to like someone becasue you have contact with them over a long period, then you think "I never realized how beautiful they are". They still look the same, its just your perception and appreciation thats changed. __________________ Coma...that is sooo profound!!! That's what happens in marriage if married people give it a chance after awhile your perception does change in good ways and you learn to appreciate each other the longer you are together. I look at my husband sometimes and remember what a beautiful person he is..sometimes ya just have to step back and look!

[coma]

ah coma, turly the lurve guru of the hpotd forum Should I say Thanks or feel embarresed? I guess you mean Love by Lurve. For me when things went funny romantically I always tried to think "how can I improve on that" rather than the "I am a useless f*ckup". My next book From f*ckup to guru in 10 easy steps!

[Tricky]

Im captain suave anyway so i can afford to be picky

[coma]

Coma...that is sooo profound!!! Thanks! Aw shucks Im captain suave anyway so i can afford to be picky Yeah, but one can picky themselves into a life alone. Good to be suave. I have hard girls tell me I am "unnaturally smooth". But I just spit out what I think about their good qualities and worry if I look dumb later. Who doesnt like an honest compliment? Dont lay it on too thick though, or you look like an ass. Its an old saw but If you want a girl to like you, notice when they change their hair or get a new blouse or whatever. Works like a charm. If it works on The Flintstones it can work for you